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How I Stopped Losing French Hook Earrings



When I was little, I remember my mom telling me those tiny rubber pieces on the backs of earrings were just part of the packaging. You know the ones—soft, squishy, and often tossed aside without a second thought. According to her, they were only there to keep earrings from slipping off the card—not something you actually needed to wear.

Mom was right, they are great for packaging but as I got older (and lost more earrings than I care to count), it finally clicked:
If they’re strong enough to keep earrings from falling off the card, wouldn’t they help keep them from falling out of my ears, too?
Yes. Yes, they would, the little clear things had a dual purpose. 

That realization changed how I wear earrings—and how I package them, too. These days, I consider silicone backs so essential that I include extras with every order from my shop.


Why Silicone Backs Matter

Hook-style earwires—like French hooks or shepherd hooks—are beautiful, comfortable, and easy to wear. But they come with one little flaw: they don’t always stay put. A scarf, a hug, or brushing your hair behind your ear… and suddenly, your earring is gone.

Silicone backs are a simple, effective way to prevent that. Clear, lightweight, and almost invisible when worn, they slide onto the back of the earwire and hold it snugly in place—so you can move freely without worrying about what's still hanging on.


Why I Use Silicone (and Only Silicone)

There are different types of earring backs out there, but I choose silicone for a reason:
they’re safe for your jewelry.

Unlike rubber, silicone won’t cause metal to tarnish—an important detail when you're wearing antique finishes or copper tones, like many of the pieces I create. Silicone backs are also hypoallergenic, which makes them a gentle choice for sensitive ears.

Now, they’re not perfect—over time, silicone can harden. But I’ll take that minor tradeoff any day if it means keeping your earrings secure and your metals protected.



Why I Always Include Extras

As someone who wears earrings daily and creates them for a living, I know how easily those tiny backs can disappear. One might roll under the dresser. Another might vanish into the lining of your purse. That’s why I don’t just include a pair—I include extras.

Because I want your earrings to be worn and enjoyed, not lost halfway through your day.


A Little Jewelry Tip

Keep a few silicone backs tucked away in your drawer, travel bag, or vanity tray. You’ll be surprised how often they come in handy—especially on busy mornings or when packing for a trip.

And if you ever find yourself needing more, don’t hesitate to ask. I’m always happy to send a few your way.


Sometimes the smallest details make the biggest difference.
And these overlooked little pieces of silicone?
They might just be the everyday guardians of your jewelry box.


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